Loving my SHAPE…

25 Mar

Yin yang

There is something about the New Year that causes us to make all kinds of resolutions and promises of betterment. It’s perhaps the allure of a ‘start over’ or ‘do better’ that the freshness of a New Year suggests; even though it’s a freshness we get everyday 😉

This year I decided to set quarterly goals for myself instead of waiting to evaluate my growth in November or December. The first quarter was for me to learn about me. I was quite intrigued to see what would play out at the end of March.

Back in February, God led me to best selling author, Rick Warren’s “What on Earth am I here for?” It was a 40 day journey of purpose. I was totally stoked. I gifted it to myself and wrote in it “To Jacqueline, From Jacqueline, 2/15/14. Two of my co-workers laughed at that, but hey, if I don’t invest in me who will?

It has been an absolute blessing, and I couldn’t help but share this day entitled: “Shaped for Serving God”

I think the reason this was beautiful to me is because it is often difficult to tell someone that an abusive childhood, a disability, the death of a child, a failed marriage, job loss etc will shape them into the person God intended them to be. But difficult as it may be, it’s true. Nothing that happens in our life is insignificant.  God uses all of it to mold us for ministry to others and shape us for our service to Him. 

Here’s some of what it said about our SHAPE:

Spiritual gifts





Spiritual Gifts – These are special God-empowered abilities for serving Him that are given only to believers. We can’t earn nor do we deserve them…hence them being gifts. Our gifts are not given for our own benefit but for the benefit of others, just as other people were given gifts for our benefit. If others don’t use their gifts, you get cheated, and if you don’t use your gifts, they get cheated. Have you taken the time to discover your spiritual gifts? An unopened gift is worthless (and I believe, an insult to the giver).

Heart – Your heart represents the source of all your motivations…what you love to do and what you care about most. Another word for heart is passion. How do you know when you are serving God from your heart? The first telltale sign is enthusiasm. When you are doing what you love to do, no one has to motivate you or challenge you or check up on you. You do it for the sheer enjoyment. The second characteristic of serving God from your heart is effectiveness. Whenever you do what God wired you to love to do, you get good at it. Passion drives perfection.

Abilities – Your abilities are the natural talents you were born with. Some people have a natural ability with words:They came out of the womb talking! Other people have natural athletic abilities, excelling in physical coordination. Still others are good at mathematics or music or mechanics. Every ability can be used for God’s glory. God has a place in his church where your specialties can shine and you can make a difference. It’s up to you to find that place. What I am able to do, God wants me to do. God will never ask you to dedicate your life to a task you have no talent for.

Personality –  Your uniqueness is a scientific fact of life. When God made you he broke the mold. There never has been, and never will be, anybody exactly like you. It’s obvious that God loves variety…just look around! God made introverts and extroverts. Some who love routine and those who love variety. Some ‘thinkers’ and others ‘feelers’. When you are forced to minister in a manner that is “out of character” for your temperament, it creates tension and discomfort, requires extra effort and energy, and produces less than the best results. This is why mimicking someone else’s ministry never works. You don’t have their personality. You can learn from the examples of others, but you must filter what you learn through your own shape. It feels good to do what God made you to do.

Experiences – You have been shaped by your experiences in life, most of which were beyond your control. It’s the category of ‘painful experiences’ that God uses the most to prepare you for ministry. God never wastes hurt! The very experience that you have resented or regretted most in life –  the ones you’ve wanted to hide and forget –  are the experiences God wants to use to help others. They are your ministry. For God to use your painful experiences, you must be willing to share them. Doing this will probably be your most effective ministry. People are always more encouraged when we share how God’s grace helped us in weakness than when we brag about our strengths. Don’t waste your pain; use it to help others.”

This was the lesson for Day 30 and it was a joy to read this. But let me share what has blessed me the most on this journey: the first sentence of Day 1. This is what it said “IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU.” 

Ha, so very true. We ALL have unique SHAPEs, but it’s NOT about US! It’s all about GOD.

Enjoy your SHAPE and use what God gave you 🙂





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13 responses to “Loving my SHAPE…

  1. writeshianwrite

    March 25, 2014 at 7:49 pm

    Beautiful! You’re so right. Sometimes I have no idea what he’s doing in my life or what he wants. But in the end, it always makes sense and work for the better.

    • JC

      March 25, 2014 at 8:43 pm

      It really does….but in the midst it is a beast. Check the book out….it will bless you.

  2. writeshianwrite

    March 25, 2014 at 7:53 pm

    P.S. What a path you’ve traveled. God really thinks very highly of you.

    • JC

      March 25, 2014 at 8:45 pm

      It’s been interesting, but I count it a privilege that He chose me to serve Him. Having His perspective has so blessed my life, that all I want to do is pay it forward 🙂
      Have a blessed day my beautiful sister

  3. journeyofjoy

    March 25, 2014 at 9:17 pm

    JC, What a great post!!

    This is the best I’ve seen this worded. And I LOVED it! “I think the reason this was beautiful to me is because it is often difficult to tell someone that an abusive childhood, a disability, the death of a child, a failed marriage, job loss etc will shape them into the person God intended them to be. But difficult as it may be, it’s true”.

    Also really appreciate the effort of highlighting the S-H-A-P-E context for us. So insightful and helpful for where we’re all trying to go. I’m on break and have taken a break from this, but I had to tell you that this one blessed me.

    Take good care!

    • JC

      March 26, 2014 at 12:11 pm

      Hi Marlene 🙂
      Thanks for the comment. Was going to shoot you an email this week just to check in for a chat. But glad you dropped by, I am totally excited about this season we’re all in!
      Blessings always

  4. nopew

    March 28, 2014 at 3:24 pm

    What came to mind was the image of God as the potter (Jer. 18, Rom. 9). The potter takes a shapeless lump of moist dirt and turns it into something, some smooth shaping, some pinching, perhaps painting, but in the end it goes into the hot kiln to finish the job. This attaches to my own Lenten journey. Especially meaningful is Warren’s “Don’t waste your pain; use it to help others.”

    • JC

      April 1, 2014 at 6:40 pm

      Yes, that’s why I commented to that post you wrote. In the midst of the pinching and molding, it sure sucks, but the end result is so worth it.

      I was reading somewhere where someone asked a silversmith how he knew a piece of silver was ready and he replied ‘when I can see my reflection in it’.
      Perhaps God does the same with us…..processes us until He sees His reflection in us. 🙂
      Blessings always

      • nopew

        April 2, 2014 at 1:00 am

        Wonderful idea. I’ll “reflect” on that…Actually hope to reflect the Saviour in all things.

  5. greenlightlady

    April 2, 2014 at 1:17 am

    JC, I appreciate how you addressed the need for Christians to serve in a way that uses their gifts rather than working against them. You are so right that it’s not about us. Thankfully we serve a loving Father.

    Blessings ~ Wendy ❀

  6. afsheenanjum

    April 10, 2014 at 6:18 am

    I loved the post and i love your thought of loving God and know him better.
    May Allah bless you ameen

  7. Jennifer

    April 15, 2014 at 1:32 am

    How have I not been following you? I was certain I was. I really enjoy your posts, and this one was perfect for me today (even as late as I am to the post). I am just now having more and more talks with God about my SHAPE, though I wouldn’t have called it that before now. Thank you!

  8. Otto von Münchow

    April 17, 2014 at 11:18 pm

    What a great idea to set quarterly goals for yourself. I might have to consider the same. Also enjoy what you wrote about shape.


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